our dear b_y
o_ __ & __. L_____
Died July __ 18_1
Aged ______ mos."
the foot stone is missing the middle initial:
Either someone was motivated by hatred and exacted some postmortem revenge on the stone, or more likely, since the neat chiseling seems to be the work of a professional, possibly the stone carveršs actions were motivated by the parentšs non payment for serivces rendered. He could hardly have repossessed the stone because it was useless to anyone else and he couldnšt bring himself to smash his handiwork, so he carefully defaced it. Either way, the identity of the deceased was literally obliterated from the face of the earth.
And there it sits all to itself calling out to eternity "Who was I?"